The Tony Kornheiser lesson: Even when you think someone is not, someone is ALWAYS listening
Of course, by now, you have probably heard of the statements that Tony Kornheiser made about ESPN Analyst, Hannah Storm. In case you missed it, here it is what he said:
“Hannah Storm in a horrifying, horrifying outfit today,” Kornheiser said. “She’s got on red go-go boots and a catholic school plaid skirt … way too short for somebody in her 40s or maybe early 50s by now.
“She’s got on her typically very, very tight shirt. She looks like she has sausage casing wrapping around her upper body … I know she’s very good, and I’m not supposed to be critical of ESPN people, so I won’t … but Hannah Storm … come on now! Stop! What are you doing?”
Now, the fact that he made these statements are bad enough. I don’t think anybody would question that point. However, it’s further magnified by the fact that he made the comments on his radio show.
Do we feel sorry for him? OOOOO, no! 2 weeks off the air is just a drop in the bucket. He’s already apologized and he will be back on prime time before march madness is officially over. The reason I’m bringing this story forward is for the millions of people who ‘like’ Tony think they can say something and nobody is paying attention.
Unfortunately, most people don’t realize that every one on the internet has the potential to reach MILLIONS of people in an instant. And for those of you who are working, you need to realize one fundamental fact. If you use the internet as your sounding board, at least ONE of those millions of people may know your BOSS!!!!
Let’s be real. We LOVE our technology. We’re intoxicated by twitter. Fascinated by Facebook. Mesmerized by Myspace. Blown away by our Blogs. And yelling ‘hip hip, hoo ray’ for YOU TUBE! And you better believe that we use every tool that we can think of when can.
Unfortunately, in our ‘haste’ to fully maximize all of these tools, we let two little words called ‘common sense’ seep out of our ears. What made you think that posting an update on your facebook page that says “my boss is an idiot’ wouldn’t get back to her? Who told you that a ‘tweet’ that says “my boss is stupid” wouldn’t get back to him?
And I got news for you. It’s almost like getting caught in bed with someone who is NOT your significant other. You can do the Texas Two step as much as you want but when the music stops, yo ass is GONE!! You can’t argue a post that YOU wrote. You can’t argue what you put in YOUR facebook page. There is no getting around it. And, as one of my tech friends once told me, once it’s on the web, it’s A WRAP! You can’t get it off. You can’t modify it. You may be able to TRY and delete it but if the wrong person saw it and copied it, I got two words for you:
“TOO LATE”
“PINK SLIP”
“YOU’RE FIRED”
Hell, take your pick!!
And OH, don’t think because you wrote a posting AFTER hours at home that you’re safe. As more and more companies move to regular use of technology, you NEVER know who may watching. Now, I’m not saying that you should censor your speech. However, you need to understand two points. ONE, if you say something disparaging about your employer, be prepared to accept the consequences. TWO, you don’t TRULY know who has your back in an employment situation so don’t let yourself fall into a false sense of security. In the right situation, people WILL DIME YOU OUT!!
Listen, we aren’t all of the same calibur as Hannah Storm or Tony Kornheiser or Shawn Johnson or Apollo Ohno. Millions of people are not resting on our every word. But be careful. There are a FEW people who are very interested in what you have to say and you don’t want WHAT you say to effect WHERE you work.
